[It's apples and oranges, as far as Fitz is concerned. Damon Salvatore is an unrepentant monster, and more people ought to be willing to stand up and tell him so.]

She's been imprisoned here, tortured. If she's been traumatized, can you really hold it against her? Maybe she knows things but is afraid to say them. She's been victimized. She needs compassion, not more things to keep her awake at night.